There Have Been

Bad Moments


Michael Hutchence
Water in my cereal...
9-17

It's like a paralysis has taken me. Like something has a hold of my mind and won't let go. It's as if a beloved family pet is snarling and snapping at me when I reach close to nuzzle it's ear.
 
It's like a good friend that I maybe didn't call enough had suddenly disappeared.

 

 
I haven't been able to write in a month.

Have I wanted to?
 
Sometimes, yes. But sometimes, no.
 
On and off all through the day yesterday I sat at the computer, trying to get back on the horse. All day yesterday, trying to bring the voice inside me to the surface. All day yesterday, trying to identify how I feel, trying to explain what has made me so hesitant and silent lately. Words came through, but meanings didn't follow.
 
I'm frightened.
 
I've been known to close down before, it happens now and again. But so many things feel different this time. So many things feel uneasy. So many skies are gray. This time it's not a question of time, not a question of effort versus desire. It's not a question of switching to a blogger, or only deciding to write little things, or post funny links instead of digging deep inside myself. This time it's not a question of priority.
 
Right now, there are no pictures in my head.
There are no songs on my fingers.
 
So many things that I've wanted to say, so many things that have found that place in my mind that founders discussion, creativity, and exuberance....
 
But the words won't come.
 
And I'm frightened.
 
It feels like I'm in a middleground. I'm full of things to think about and say, but I can't get anything onto the page, like my writing is coming out in a different language and I don't know how to correctly conjugate all the verbs. I can't find the room/time/mood within myself to make music, and it seems like I'm getting pulled in a lot of different directions at once.
 
But the screwed up thing is that basically, things aren't really that bad.. it's just that so much could be, I don't know.. better.
 
It's one of those points in the curve where you get hung up and hung out on the tiny things that you tell everyone else not to sweat. Lots of advice from all corners, but even with lots of that advice being sage and useful, I don't feel any different.
 
I'm surrounded by friends that are far away. I need more contacts here in town, more escapes and confidants, but you know... sometimes I just don't want to.
 
All these myriad events, all these things that in the light of recent unbelievable tragedy seem so inconsequential, so unimportant.. yet so vital to how my world turns.
 
I'm involved in rescue efforts of my own. It doesn't mean that my heart isn't with the souls in New York or Washington, it just means that I have rubble of my own to dig through as well...
 
I'm tired of advice that chases its own tail. I'm tired of feelings that have been forced to live in a cage. I'm tired of relationships redefining themselves simply because time passes. I'm tired of these horrible voices in my head that are trying to provide me with simple, brutal solutions instead of deeper understanding.
 
Bombing won't solve the problem. It just wont.
 
Don't think I don't feel that taste on my tongue, don't assume that I don't yearn for the sound of explosions returning the pain delivered scream by scream, don't suppose that I cannot feel the rage.
 
I don't trust those feelings. I don't like the shadows they cast, the darknesses that I can't see through.
 
I won't swing my sword if I can't be sure of who might in it's path.
 
That's not how I do things.
 
But having said that, a question begins to form in my mind...
 
could that be the problem?

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